You want to like Victoria Gotti, daughter of the late Mafia don John Gotti aka “The Teflon Don” and “The Dapper Don” and author of This Family of Mine: What it was Like Growing up Gotti. Victoria has an engaging intimate writing style; and is already a successful published author and journalist. Despite the lurid cover photograph (see below) she comes across as an intelligent, modest and down to earth individual, a responsible parent, and a person who has overcome many personal challenges. You also want to know how this likeable person can defend and excuse someone found guilty of murder, loan sharking, racketeering, obstruction of justice and other criminal convictions even if that person is her father.
Throughout the first 245 (out of 375) pages of this book I kept waiting for Victoria to explain. She loves her father, this she makes very clear. Her childhood was mainly a happy and secure one growing up in a poor but loving family in the Howard Beach section of Queens N.Y. Yes, she admits her father was a criminal albeit a “Robin Hood” type criminal using his ill gotten gains to help the less fortunate. Yes, she hated the fact that her father was in the Mafia, though mainly because she worried for his safety and felt having a parent in jail was disruptive to family life. But the justification she gives for his crimes? The government is worse. To quote “When an unofficial organization demands money for protection, it is extortion. When the government takes a percentage of your income, for protection (police department), your purchases, your sales, your house , your phone bill, your electric bill, that’s legal …it’s called taxation”. This stunning rationalization negated the previous sympathy I had toward Gotti. However it couldn’t take away the fact that she is an excellent writer and paints a vivid picture of growing up in a colourful, volatile and ultimately tragic family.


